Category: 🤨Basics

Few years ago, I started a thing with full of dreams and ambitions.

WORKED HARD FOR THAT.

One day sudden bolt of thunder happens and I decided to QUIT. I usually don’t quit easily but IT’S JUST A MOMENT when you know, it’s the time.

A short story it seems but let me finish…

Before reaching at conclusion, I have made a list of pros and cons multiple times and try to arrive at middle path (basic method taught in elementary). Quitting doesn’t happen a single day, there is repetitive thought making round in mind that something is not going in the direction that you want it to go.

After multiple rounds of self reflection and simultaneously working for the thing, there is some lacking, you feel in the heart. From “Day One” you reach to the “One Day”, the day you finally decided because you can’t do that thing anymore and exhausted in the process.

After quitting the thing, still little spark of that ambition lights up when I look at that thing and the progress that it can provide. Now I have come to terms with this situation. Still some days I sit in my room and think if it’s the right decision that I have made. The only answer comes from my inner is “a YES”, I feel free of some burden which is upon me for so many years.

Definitely quitting is not easy especially it’s a thing you have dreamt for many years but it’s the path that you have to cross to reach where you truly want to be. There is a beautiful world on other side of that thing waiting to welcome us with wide open arms.

DREAMING is unstoppable but some things are.

It’s ok to know when to stop

Menaka Sangwan

what if we get all that we want??

what if we just think and the thing just happened without much effort?

what if we know what is there in future for us!?

what if we can predict the things?!

what if we can complete all to do lists and that too in time??

what if we get all things on time??

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If all these will be true then will we be Weak, Lazy Human Beings??? No, yeah.

Manifest to Reality..

Menaka Sangwan

Recently, I went somewhere- if you know, you know; and if you don’t, no worries, I’m going to tell my favorite things otherwise too.

1. There are always some people who wish to live the life that you are currently slogging in. So be grateful for EACH and every day you live by. Before going there, I’m just overthinking about my life that I should have figured out everything by now. Relax guys, everything will be figured out eventually😎.
2. Also, there is another set of people (very small) who you admire and want to be like them. It is rare to found that set of people who can check most of the things in your list which you want in life. In these days I have seen such people too🥸.
3. There is something in there which makes me cry, laugh and the best I can. I have cried my heart out and laughed until my side ached, literally. These days make life more live-able🫶🏻.
4. I have read human beings there instead of things. Some beings been twice my age but our conversations match like twins 👯.
5. Seen some of knowledgeable human beings with sweet heart. Perfect combo, Isn’t it?🫂.
6. Went with zero percent expectations and come with 100% satisfaction. This is the CORE of nucleus “Last 5 DAYS”🧚‍♀️.

Live-able Experience Experienced!!

Menaka Sangwan

Gist of complete blog (providing to save your time, but you can read explanation if you want to because why not!): Think and write the things/ events/ people you want at some stage of your life.

When we are at a stage in our life and our only motivation is to achieve a THING that can be good grades, our dream college, job or some other important event. After lot of hustle, we are able to achieve the thing and but don’t get fully satisfied with it because the importance or hype we given to it is – not of that worth.

Being in that thing, we realize that sometimes the outcomes/ scenarios we imagine are not the same as when we are dreaming of it. We get lost and have no idea, what to do next and it triggers the anxiety point. Most of the time, it’s not easy to find your next big thing or even side hustle while being caught up in that so called “Achieved Success” by people.

Scenario 1: Have you ever loved a show and watched all the seasons in just a few days and then get completely lost afterwards about life.?

Scenario 2: When we’re studying for an exam tomorrow and our mind filled up with a lot of fun activities and ideas we can do in that moment, but as soon as we are done with exam, nothing excites us.

To tackle such cases, have to write the ideas/ things/ anything that can be done in your life as soon as they come up in our mind. So, in advance think, plan and write the things you want in future maybe not the next thing but can be next to next thing or next to many next things. The things written at any stage, may be several years earlier can come to our mind at most unexpected time and space when it is the most required. SO it’s best to write it at that time.

It’s a tough exercise to figure out when we achieve something because we are completely consumed by it and can become anxious if we haven’t figured out the next thing. So, have things in place to move on to the next big thing in life.

Find Next BIG THING!!

Menaka Sangwan